80, in fact, you can not divorce

 80, in fact, you can not divorce
Source women after the majority. Marriage Registry staff told us that many people lined up to divorced after the Spring Festival, but also from not on. no one wanted to become someone's br> dispositif:
29-year-old Karen described her marriage that field, suddenly, like falling into an abyss, we quickly ended the relationship, but then I found that I am familiar with before marriage life has gone. freelance writer, she had a dream of many modern women have it all: handsome and charming doctor husband, upscale community of spacious homes, an advertising company's high-paying jobs. in her husband into a domestic well-known medical work, she 24 years old to marry him. are followed by a series of trivial things: pick the wedding, choose wedding photography studio, write out invitations to the guest list. Karen recalled: the state to get married, I think it will deal with their own marriage, and I think he is. use of cologne, but also started wearing Prada clothes. Finally, she found her husband having an affair with another woman behind her back.
when she took the evidence of a confrontation with her husband, he actually shamelessly said: But now a doctor, and the original is not a realm of the completely! > as the top reason for divorce as complex as the diamond section
Karen is not alone. According to Census Bureau data show that after 80 into the marriage, women who had 6% two years after marriage the divorce. like Karen have 4 to 5 years this brief history of the young man married is not a small minority, the age of 30 married women, in divorce within 5 years accounted for 10% of the people, of which 4 couples in respect of 1 pair is the end of the marriage within two years.
the causes of such problems as complex as the top section of diamonds. The experts considered to be more open to marriage, too self-centered attitudes cause the spread of divorce, while still over 20 years old is not strong sense of responsibility as young people's mentality, like,cheap UGG boots, also contributed to the marriage broke down. Many marriage experts, young people are deep down is still very traditional, but they are for ; whole life, faithful to the Women are generally more self after independence, often do not commit themselves in marriage, which is the more active they will be one of the reasons for divorce. Another reason is that now most of the 80 couples have chosen to childbearing, which indirectly makes women can have more development in the workplace, in the economically more independent and not let more families on their own to tie him down, and now divorce cases every 3 months is such a case there are two.
Emotional experts Xiadong Hao said: the ratio of unmarried cohabitation are also more and more, women than abortion statistics 20 years ago, an increase of 16%, these young people in their 20s are not uncommon, these women have increased 80 become the number one risk of ex-wife.
for this phenomenon, the research team also worked abroad a series of studies, University of Denver, Dr. Stanislaw experts have feelings of problem. He said: A break with the results, but eventually will find the woman of such people as her husband A. She teaches French and Spanish school near the house dessert in order to avoid trouble is coiled around the students hear, S, 28-year-old whispered: married man, when I was 26 years old, this marriage lasted a year and a half. Soon, S's husband began her case in the absence of air to get in the pub, or sleeping in her single brothers who put their own back home.
marriage therapist Dr. Doherty has written a book called determine social circle, many young couples who have no chance of marriage stability, and married couples to be friends a long time. stability. ways to handle problems. . .
29-year-old writer Janny, currently living in Shanghai, she witnessed the kind of married, but they divorced before the age of 30. I like around five friends starred in Friend also made the same choice.
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perfect partner as many divorced women, like, Janny that she will divorce just because there is no meet the right person. more independent after 80 women, more and more will be to create a place to wait for another person, rather than integration The. honeymoon period should be as sweet as those who will be hit in a great marriage, which is why marriage is the divorce rate is the highest period of two years, usually through a two-year run-in period will be more stable marital relationship . away from each other. That is, every day we must accept, adapt to change. r, l feel bad in bed, r, l r. we seem to alienate each other all these reasons, individual rights and l r is related to young people in modern, when in the face of gender relations, l share of responsibility than r r l lower self-satisfaction. Many young people think that everything they do should give them the satisfaction Caixing. years later, where she became head of the project team, she recalled: Exchange diary. When the marriage broke down in an instant, she can not believe: the husband said that he never want to get married.
things Houluo La memories from the wedding day of their marriage there is danger, to attend our wedding, and marry him when he surprised me, will not consider marriage until he is, so I am surprised to marry him when he was at a loss. What would they have no clue. When they encounter the inevitable problems or setbacks, they tend to self-justify, l I definitely made a wrong decision. she / he and the marriage bit, I withdraw as soon as possible! r This is one of the main collapse of marriage. to report a pre-marriage counseling course of study. Doherty, said: I met many of the 80 women who will go to my studio to complain l I can not stand it! I want to end the relationship to find the perfect other half, looking to have more in common. r This is really no need. their marriage. This is all the more satisfying it is very difficult, and such women, their marriages are often not ideal, because they soon will find that no one can achieve them for marriage, meaning, purpose, happiness, the deepest expectations. : Society in good times and bad times we are facing calmly. Now and then talking about her first marriage, the tone calm, like the others to tell the story. talk about first marriage, Fang said she was very happy, was very painful. it, . enjoy how to be a wife, for my husband, he do something for me, he was taking care of me, he felt that he is happy, is needed, and I stripped the former husband of this happiness . do it,bailey UGG boots, because every business trip, my husband packed my bags are very happy, let him do it, do it make him happy, why do I have to do it yourself. When her face is calm and satisfied smile. emotions experts Xiadong Hao said: to her. is actually wrong, the fact is often the time when she needs you, you chose to make her tough to withstand the difficulties you must face together is to choose your own subconscious to let her make a big Woman. In fact, is to physically weaker, they should receive more care, but this view is just my personal opinion nothing more.